Month: May 2007

  • So You Think You Can Dance

    So You Think You Can Dance
    “So You Think You Can Dance,” one of my favorite summer T.V. shows, is here again. I must say, each year I am inspired anew. Inspired by their beautiful bodies to take care of my own. Inspired by their discipline, passion and strength. For me, most T.V. shows do nothing more than entertain. But with this one, I feel reminded that the world is a stage. Radiance is a lifestyle: a mix of gratitude, confidence, generosity, humility and determination. I want to be radiant. I want to be surrounded by radiant people. I’m blessed in that way, because the people closest to me glow with a particular kind of life. In some it is very faint, others very bright, but with each I anticipate what a new day will reveal about them.

    When I was a young dancer, I was taught that it’s not how you begin a pirouette . . . it’s whether or not you can land it. All pirouettes start out looking pretty much the same, but toward the end it’s easy to see which dancers are deliberately creating beauty and which are flopping around. Flopping can be beautiful, but it lacks form. Thanks to Plato, I love Form, and I need it to properly enjoy dance. Unless, of course, my daughter-to-be wants to flop around. I’ll flop with her all day.

    My husband would probably turn this into a basketball analogy. It’s fun to watch someone get lucky and beat the buzzer at the 3 point line once in awhile. But it can be more satisfying to watch a pro sink the same ball because one can sense the desire, commitment, and practice behind that shot.

    If you asked me to tell you what life analogy I take away from “So You Think You Can Dance,” it would be this: Floppy leads to Form. A pirouette is never good the first thousand times. It always begins beautifully and ends horribly. It takes time to learn to land a pirouette. It takes time to land a new phase of life, too. Beginning a new phase is the most natural thing in the world. Like getting married. When Daniel and I said our vows we started beautifully . . . then landed on our proverbial asses. When we finally quit busting our asses we were still short of a masterpiece, but a new element was added into our routine nevertheless: parenthood. So far we’ve inflicted, and received, more than our share scrapes and bruises trying to dance this new dance together. It doesn’t matter, though. Floppy leads to Form, and I have the best dance partner in the world.


  • Will the Online Bowling Pro Shop Overtake Brick and Mortar Sales?

    The question is: will an online bowling pro shop ever be more popular than a store inside a brick and mortar bowling alley? Bowling has been considered by some to be a dying sport. Hell, some people don’t even think bowling qualifies as anything more than a hobby. Other than the citizens of podunk towns with nothing more than a Wal-Mart and a bowling alley, who under the age of 35 really cares about bowling?

    Apparently, bowling as a sport is still going strong. From office leagues to college courses and late night adventures, bowling alleys have become a haven for people from all walks of life – and they have to buy their bowling supplies somewhere. While the traditional bowling store inside the building would seem the obvious choice, the online bowling pro shop has gained serious momentum.

    Everything from Ebonite, Hammer, and Columbia bowling balls to Dexter bowling shoes are now available online, so you can shop from the convenience of your home, office, or public wi-fi spot. Why subject yourself to the prices of a bowling alley when you can shop online and find the best deals on bowling balls, shoes, towels, and other gear?

    Showplace Lanes is the nearest decent bowling alley to my house. If I’m going to bowl anywhere, it will be there. Granted, I don’t frequent the lanes very often, but Showplace is the place for me. I’m loyal to the lanes, but not the shop. When it comes to shopping, don’t get between me and a deal. But I’m no scrooge. I want quality, and I want competitive pricing. That’s why I would only consider buying equipment online.

    Food for thought. Feel free to comment.


  • Dallas Landscaping Receives a Healthy Boost

    I can’t remember how many years it’s been since we had such good rainfall throughout the Spring until this late in May. Normally, it’s breaking 90 degrees outside with no hint of a reprieve. Not this year. Landscapers and homeowners around the DFW metroplex are undoubtedly rejoicing at their good fortune. More rainfall = lower water bills, not to mention no drought or watering restrictions.

    It’s hard to make a dying lawn look good. But even the best Dallas landscaping company will be grateful for the extra help from Mother Nature (and the One who created it). Cool temperatures, green grass, and plenty to mow. I know my yard’s growing like it’s goin’ out of style.

    Unfortunately, life has been so busy that Heather and I have missed our annual Shrub Day. This would be disheartening were it not for the fact that Paradise Landscaping has provided excellent service to us this year. They will be adding some greenery and seasonal flowers to the beds soon, and then we’ll really be in business.

    For now, let’s all be grateful that this year has begun with such abundant rain. All things considered, it beats the hell out of melting in drought.


  • Will the Dallas Mavericks Pursue Rashard Lewis?

    It’s obvious that the Dallas Mavericks’ roster needs some serious attention. Granted, if the Atlanta Hawks or New York Knicks could get their hands on this roster, they’d wet themselves. But we’re not New York or sucky Atlanta. We’re the big D, the home of the next NBA dynasty… at least, that’s what we thought.

    Now we’d settle for another run at the title. We’d settle for someone who can stop Baron Davis from playing like Superman. In short, we need someone like Rashard Lewis.

    As I’ve admitted in previous posts, I know very little about free agency and the current status of players’ contracts. If you keep up with that kind of thing, you probably won’t find my sports opinions very useful. They’re more for the dreamer than the know-it-all fantasy league member.

    In a previous post, I called on the Mavericks to trade Dirk Nowitski. Cuban made it clear in his recent teary-eyed lovefest at Nowitski’s MVP ceremony that he thinks Dirk is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Which means no trade. No consideration of trade. No entertaining the hypothetical benefits of trade. Cuban is the wizard behind the curtain, and his strongest feelings will win out over anyone else’s reason.

    So since we’ve got ourselves a giant German dilemma, we best get to steppin’ and find him some serious help on the perimeter. And you can’t find a better free agent this summer than Seattle hero, Rashard Lewis. As far as free agents are concerned, he’s the baddest, most expensive option out there. He also would rather stick with Seattle, or so he says after opting out of his last 2 years on the contract. Methinks it just a safe way to not tick off the team you can count on in case the other teams’ offers suck.

    Based on the 2006-2007 regular season stats, let’s take a gander at the league leaders:

    Points Per GameÂ

    • Kobe Bryant – 31.6 pts
    • Carmelo Anthony – 28.9 pts
    • Gilbert Arenas – 28.4 pts
    • LeBron James – 27.3 pts
    • Michael Redd – 26.7 pts

    Rebounds Per Game

    • Kevin Garnett – 12.8
    • Tyson Chandler – 12.4
    • Dwight Howard – 12.3
    • Carlos Boozer – 11.7
    • Marcus Camby – 11.7

    I could go on to assists, steals, blocked shots, and turnovers, but you won’t find a Dallas Maverick in the top 5 in any major category except free throw percentage, where Nowitski did have an amazing 90% free throw shooting average.

    When looking for suitable support for Dirk, Dallas better be going down the list of leaders and seeing who they might get in a trade. Toss a couple guards and a draft pick at someone for their team’s star. Do whatever it takes. Phoenix has proven that it doesn’t take a deep bench to win playoff games. And San Antonio has proven that starting superstar talent and a deep bench win championships.

    Dallas supposedly had the winning combo, but unfortunately the depth of their bench is significantly better in the league than the talent of their starting 5. As much as I like the guys, Jason Terry, Eric Dampier, and Devin Harris are all expendable. Unfortunately, I don’t think anyone will ever consider taking on Dampier’s massive (and undeserved) contract. Devin Harris could probably develop into a top 10 point guard in the next 2 years, but he and Terry are probably the only 2 starters that Dallas will consider trading. Terry alone isn’t enough to get someone worthwhile, so they’re either going to have to trade both guards and a pick or Terry, a pick, and some cash.

    Gilbert Arenas would still be an awesome move too. I’m looking at Rashard Lewis and Gilbert Arenas and Tracy McGrady, and I think we can’t do better than these three. Vince Carter is definitely someone I would refuse. We don’t need a spoiled crybaby on the team. We already had Antoine Walker.

    Some would argue that Dallas has never been a thuggish team, and that Arenas would only spoil the attitude. There is defintiely a chance of that, but we also want someone with enough confidence to carry the team in the playoffs. Dirk doesn’t have it, and I seriously doubt he’ll develop it. Something has to change, and it needs to start with how the management and coaches view the actual abilities and attitude of this team.


  • Why You Shouldn’t Be a Partisan Voter

    Everyone I knew growing up was a partisan voter, and they ALL fell into the category of the GOP. Democrats became taboo – these wild eyed, ex-hippies who’d rather smoke a blunt than go to church (actually, they probably do both). My Republicans never belonged to the NRA-lovers, but they did believe in the right to bear arms as a principle. Of course, I also learned to look at smokers as bad people, so you can imagine how my development went.

    I remember when George Bush Sr. ran against the huge head of Michael Dukakis. I knew nothing about politics, except that Dukakis was the “bad man”. What are we teaching our children? Seriously. I demand of myself that I teach my children how to think critically and how to make these decisions on their own.

    You’ll likely think that I’ve gone over to the Dark Side. Not true. I am neither a Democrat nor a Republican. I am also not an Independent (which I classify as one who persistently votes for the Independent candidate). I am not a party or an organization. I am one man who votes his conscience. That means there will be times when I do not cast my vote. I argued for years against voting for the lesser of two evils. The reasoning is that in so doing you are admittedly voting for evil.

    The time has come where I recognize that my views have shifted yet again. Rather than refuse to participate because all candidates disappoint me, I tend to be more forgiving of flaws and differing points of view. It’s safe to say that as I’ve aged, I’ve realized that there are often complicated reasons motivating the beliefs and decisions we make. Everything may be simple in objective truth, but we are people, and people are not objective.

    Let’s look at the Republicans for a moment. While I have been taught to respect them for their anti-abortion, anti-gay marriage, and anti-welfare state stances, there are faults to consider as well.

    • There is without a doubt a lack of Republican Presidential candidates who can speak clearly and comfortably and defend their views without sounding ridiculous.
    • While Democrats waste billions on lazy people, Republicans waste trillions on killing people
    • The Republicans core economic value is War… to start a war is to increase federal spending on defense, which is to create more jobs in the defense/technology sector which thus benefits the economy.
    • Republicans are not concerned enough with the overwhelming problem of pollution and depletion of natural resources. Republicans lack the vision to realize that if they don’t severely regulate pollution and dumping, they will have no world to rule.
    • Republicans take advantage of the Church to earn votes.

    These are only a few criticisms which I can think of immediately. And although I have “seen the light” and refuse to vote Republican for the sake of voting Republican doesn’t mean that I have performed the equally stupid reaction of voting only Democrat.

    No, to earn my vote, each candidate must take a stand on the major issues and clearly define what that stance will be. They must convince me that they are more than just hot air. They must do more than look good and offer the expected yet ridiculous motivational speeches that each candidate feels compelled to give.


  • If Search Popularity Elected Presidents…

    Barack Obama

    Then Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama would be neck and neck, with John Edwards trailing with only 25% of the popularity of either one of the others. I have a bet going with Mystery SEO (no links again!) on who will win. We’re not betting for anything except the privilege of being “right.” Our selections were made based on our expectation of national popularity, not personal preference. Mystery SEO thinks John Edwards is a shoe-in. I think Hillary is more likely, though I’d rather see Obama in the White House if I had my choice.

    As usual, no candidates really impress me, but I’ve got a good feeling about Obama. Unfortunately, I think America is still too racist for a black President.


  • 5 Steps to Become a Copywriter

    Karen, a virtual friend of mine whom I met on MySpace, asked me a while back for some suggestions on how to become a copywriter. I’ve put it off because to answer that question means to actually take more than the usual 5-10 minutes I spend writing each post. I’m not lazy, just busy. In addition to a very busy schedule at my search marketing agency, I also have a pregnant wife to spend time with and a few side projects already in progress. Blogging is usually the first to be sacrificed.

    But since I’m rarely asked for tips and advice, my ego demands that I respond (hey, why not be honest?).

    Tip #1: Determine within yourself that it will take 2 years to establish yourself, and that you will do what it takes during those first 2 years.

    That doesn’t mean that you won’t have job opportunities before then. Obviously, that will vary from person to person. But be willing to work another job while you write part-time or be willing to work full-time for minimal pay. Each year of experience you get raises your dollar value. But the goal is to take 2 years and create quality work that you will be proud to display to future employers during the initial interview.

    Tip #2: As long as the company or content doesn’t violate your morals, don’t turn down any opportunities to write.

    The obvious exception would be if you managed to have so many opportunities that you would tear your hair out trying to finish every project on time. These first 2 years are your foundational stage, so look everywhere for opportunities. Volunteer at church, professional or charitable organizations, friends’ small businesses, local businesses, guest writing on other people’s blogs (I’ll let you get your feet wet right here), writing your own daily blog, etc. Whether it’s a one page ad, copy for a website, or text for a brochure, pursue and accept every opportunity. If you don’t make a dime for the first six months, don’t worry. Just get some writing under your belt.

    Tip #3: Keep your ego in check.

    I learned this lesson the hard way. After six months of professional writing experience, I was acting like hot sh*# to every potential client I spoke with. I ended up losing most accounts before I even got started due to my attitude. The truth was, I was so insecure about my ability to produce quality material that I overcompensated by acting like a professional who didn’t need to negotiate at all. I had an overpriced take-it-or-leave-it attitude that got me nowhere. Most people won’t succeed using this tactic because you get the privilege of being picky by first developing a reputation of excellence and credibility. It’s the people in demand for the reputation as a copywriter who get to turn down work or refuse to negotiate pricing. Granted, there will always be clients who treat copywriting like manual labor. To these people, just politely refuse and move on. As I have learned, you never know how the impression you leave today might open or close future doors for you.

    Tip #4: Network, Network, Network

    It’s one of the most common pieces of advice because it’s simply that important. I hated the thought and the sound of networking from the beginning. As a person with no substantial work history or street cred, I felt like a fake just thinking about talking to people in the industry. I will tell you this secret: the amount of success I have enjoyed is directly proportionate to the amount of networking I have done. In other words, I’m doing fairly well right now, but I could already be making twice what I make now had I been more productive initiating relationships before taking a full-time position.

    Wondering how to get started networking? Three pieces of advice: 1) start a blog and write in it every day; 2) get some business cards printed that include your web address (i designed mine easily online); 3) visit and/or join every local metropolitan writing, marketing, artistic organization that meets monthly, meet people, and hand out your cards. My card was simple. It had my name, blog name, address, phone, email and web address on the front and a bulleted list of services on the back. I like the services part because professionals get so many cards that it’s easy to forget why you should keep a card after a few days.

    Tip #5: Develop a specialty

    At the beginning, you won’t want to limit yourself by only doing one style of writing. Take notice of what you enjoy doing the most, and always jump at the chance to do more of what you enjoy. Remember, the first 2 years are your foundation. 95% of all copywriters don’t make serious money until they reach 5 years of experience, so you have to know in your head that you are going to have the right attitude and maintain it through your probationary period. The big time head hunters don’t accept any applicants with less than 5 years of experience. But once you’re there, you have the opportunity to break into six figures if you’ve developed a specialty or two.

    Right now, I do mostly website copy, press releases, and corporate blogs. I’ve done brochures, the emails, sales sheets, case studies, and several other types of documents I can’t think of right now. Given my choice, I’d probably stick with blogs, given that they’re such a natural method of communication to me. But blogs still have a ways to go before they are valued as highly as they should be in corporate America.

    There you have it. My first five tips to becoming a copywriter. If you’d like me to add more specific information, drop me a comment and I’ll take you as deep into this as you want to go. I will add as much or as little information as you need to make it as a copywriter.

    Comments are always welcome.


  • CultureFeast Traffic Update

    Here are a few numbers for this website for April 21 – May 21, 2007:

    8,842 unique visits

    12,161 pageviews

    1.38 pages per visit

    8,167 visitors from search engines

    471 visitors from direct URL entry

    204 visitors from referring sites

    Traffic is up yet again. Good news. The only thing that’s not so great is the amount of traffic from referring sites. This means that we need more inbound links.


  • Kidd Kraddick in the Morning For Best Morning Radio Show

    Kidd Kraddick In the Morning is one of the most popular morning radio shows nationwide. It’s syndicated all over the place. I find myself flipping between Kidd and the ESPN morning show with Mike & Mike. The sports guys aren’t as entertaining as Randy Galloway, but they’re also not as annoying as Dale Hansen, so I give them a listen from time to time.

    But I usually spend more time on 106.1 KISS FM and the Kidd Kraddick In the Morning show. They have a broad range of personalities, from Kelly and Big Al to JC, Taylor, Psycho Shannon, and, of course, the fake Kinsey.

    The show is always entertaining. I’m amazed at the quality of the show, considering how many hours per morning they have to fill. I expected them to get to a point where there’s just nothing new to say. Granted, they’re not often covering deep and meaningful topics. It’s more like a Seinfeld episode of haphazard topics and jokes. Each person on staff has to make their life an open book, which is how they have enough material to keep the show rolling.

    I’m just grateful that Kidd and the gang are around in the morning so that the pathetic Lex & Terry (102.1 The Edge) show isn’t the only national ticket in town. Talk about dirty old men with raspy smokers voices and nothing but sex on the brain! The few times I’ve actually tried listening to their show, I felt like I need to bathe afterwards.

    Kidd Kraddick in the Morning has my vote for best morning radio show, period. Now if only Kidd would listen to me when I tell him which artists are going to be huge!


  • Online Self Promotion is the Path to Success

    Neil Patel recently stated in his blog post about personal branding that online self promotion is the way to make more money. He claims that in six short months of “personal branding”, he received job offers increased from $100k to $325k. Interestingly enough, I didn’t notice him mentioning how he arrived at the point of receiving $100k job offers. It’s my guess that there’s a little more than personal branding involved there. And once you have arrived at a certain point, it’s easy to imagine that a little reputation management is all you need to make it to the upper echelons of the business world.

    However, I would like to see someone sitting in their living room with a laptop and something to say get busy and manage to build their personal brand in a year, much less six months, to the point of receiving a $325k job offer. I’m not saying it’s impossible, but I’m betting that success involves a combination of luck and genius. Not that I’m calling Patel a genius. I’ll give him credit for making a name for himself.

    Ironically, Patel’s post didn’t give any inclination that he was seriously considering any of these job offers. Which brings me back to another point: there are too many people out there writing and commenting on blogs who like to tell everyone how much money they’ve turned down. They think that by writing these things they will convince us all of their worth and that somehow someone will actually offer them that much money or more. I’m hoping that no one is actually that foolish.